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Rules for being human

๐Ÿ’ฃ๐Ÿ’ฃ BRUTAL TRUTH BOMB ๐Ÿ’ฃ๐Ÿ’ฃ

Years ago when people would tell me things like “be your own best friend“, “love yourself first“, or “take care of yourself, first“; I truly thought these people were insane!!

I had no idea what the hell they were talking about. It was such nonsense to me that they may as well have been speaking a foreign language. It just made no sense at all!!

WTF…

โ“โ“ย How the hell was I supposed to love me, nobody else seemed too. I was not worthy of this thing called love. Its only for the elite. I thought it was so far out of my grasp, that it was impossible to even witness it, let alone truly experience it.

๐Ÿฅบย With this mindset, I sought out people who affirmed my belief. I repeatedly chose abusive partners. I craved chaos & thought I was thriving in this crazy, mixed up, miserable world. I truly believed that I was living the best way I could because the people around me were struggling too.

๐Ÿ’กย In 2000, my friend forced me to attend a 7 day retreat for co-dependency. I thought she was nuts, but she was not taking “no” for an answer. She arranged childcare for my kids, provided the transportation & would not shut up until she watched me walk through the front doors.

๐Ÿ˜ญย I spent that week seriously ugly crying. Everything that was said & done was like the entire program was designed on my life story. Everything.

๐Ÿค”ย My mind began to shift. My eyes & my heart were opened to fresh, new (scary) ideas.

๐Ÿ˜ฒย I was not nearly as broken as I had been led to believe.

๐Ÿ™‚ย Maybe, just maybe this thing you call love has been inside me the whole time.

๐Ÿ˜Šย Maybe, if I really looked at it, I would see that my entire life was filled with people too afraid to shine their own light, that they worked really hard to dim mine.

๐Ÿ˜ƒย Maybe, if my light shines, I could use it as a beacon for those with a similar light & we could find each other.

๐Ÿ˜ย Maybe, I am worthy after all.

๐Ÿ’ž This has been a 20 year journey and today, I join the thousands of others who say:
๐Ÿ‘ญย Be your own best friend.
If the people around you don’t inspire you to be more, do more – find new people!!
Be the reason why we call this beautiful earth a safe & loving place to call home.

๐Ÿ’ฃย RULE # 9

Everything you seek, is already inside you.
Stop looking for it in other people.

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๐Ÿ™‹โ€โ™€๏ธย If you are looking for new people – I am always right here!!

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